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Why people who are hurt still go into marriage again and again?

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(@qinyou)
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People get hurt in marriage, then they thought that they married the wrong person. But people marry because of love, where is love at the end? Whose fault? Is there truly life-time love? So many people get divoiced, does that mean people become evil ?

Do you still believe in love?  I saw so many people still looking for love, for a person who is loyalto  and love him or her only. What is love? What is marriage? If people are innocent, love is pure, then what about marriage? 

 


   
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People want to marry because they need a secured and exclusive love, so that their love can be guaranteed for a life time. They need love because they don't feel a connection with the source, the Greatest Creator. Most people want to get love instead of giving love. 

Marriage is a man-made institution, while love is a divine character. Love is all inclusive; it shines upon everyone and everything it reaches. It is infinite. Marriage is only a beautiful dream; it cannot guarantee anything.

 

 

 


   
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Posted by: conglong

People want to marry because they need a secured and exclusive love, so that their love can be guaranteed for a life time. They need love because they don't feel a connection with the source, the Greatest Creator. Most people want to get love instead of giving love. 

Marriage is a man-made institution, while love is a divine character. Love is all inclusive; it shines upon everyone and everything it reaches. It is infinite. Marriage is only a beautiful dream; it cannot guarantee anything.

 

 

 

In fact, I saw many people can accept love without marriage. Hope that will soon become the mainstream of society. 😀 


   
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Marriage is becoming an outdated form of love in nowaday society. The divorce rate is raising every year, especially in big cities and developed countries. Marriage bands couples through legal, social system, and moral level judgement. Marriage  is based on the economic and family's blood-based relationship, and never forget that marriage and family is the source of private ownership. A real ideal society cannot composed of marriage and family,  if so, private ownership selfishness rooted in human nature and society will never be eliminated.

Human being's nature is not being loyal to a fixed partner the whole life. Yes some people did,  but in the deep nature of their hearts and soul, they long for more colorful life and beautiful love. It is not against human nature, but the very character of human nature. People hope their spouses be loyal to him/her, but they themselves are attractive to other men/women. This is ugly, selfish and possessive thoughts. Freedom is for everyone. So being independent and free in love is a symbol for the new era.  


   
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Yeah, today's youngsters are quite open and sincere, honest to themselves on love and marriage. As long as it brings more happiness and freedom to people, reduce the troubles, pain, and concerns in their heart, it is good to move on as the society is developing forward. 😛 


   
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This is a habit force that has been formed for thousands of years, or a vicious circle. In the new era, all this should be changed.


   
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Thanks for above replies. Love is sweet, we cannot live without love, but we can live better without marriage.  😀 


   
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Posted by: Ivy

Thanks for above replies. Love is sweet, we cannot live without love, but we can live better without marriage.  😀 

Yeah, we can love better without marriage, or any fixed forms for love. Cause love cannot be defined by certain forms. I like an article from our values very much, that is LOVE IS A STATE OF BEING.


   
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Because people don't know there is a much better way of life.


   
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Posted by: xuefeng

Because people don't know there is a much better way of life.

Yes, I hope everyone on earth can enjoy a happy and joyful, free life one day. Then they will know the new life mode is much much better than the old one. The program is upgraded.


   
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