About relationship, what is your oppion?  

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Qinyou
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06/06/2018 3:08 am  

It is very easy to start a relationship and much easier to break it. But, to sustain a relationship, to maintain a relationship, to make a relationship work and to make a relationship last, a lot of effort is required from both sides.

Whenever you start a relationship of any sort, ensure that it is a long lasting one.

----above sentences are popular on the internet.  I am not so sure about it. I think the friendship between men of virtue is light like water, yet affectionate. What do you think? 


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Tongxin
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10/06/2018 2:22 am  

Haha, this is a popular topic. "Relationship needs to be maintained", I found this is a tiring work. If we can build up a kind of relationship that needn't to be maintained intentionally, that will save much energy and time for us. We can use that time and energy do many other things! Imagine you have a bosom friend that no need to maintain on purpose, maybe you didn't see each other  for a long time, but still feel close and happy when you meet again some day. I like this kind of relationship, it looks like "no relationship is the best relationship", but still keep the resonation, trust, and closeness in each other, this is an ideal state for me.  🙂 


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sunshine
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11/06/2018 7:44 pm  

I like the relationship you described. Life should be easy ans simple as this. 😀 


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Tongxin
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13/06/2018 3:34 am  

Thank you Sunshine, I'm happy that we share the same resonance! 🙂 


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