How do you treat original small family members in a big community family?
I noticed that you think traditional family is not suitable for today's society. In your "plan of union". Somehow I agree with that. Many of my friends and today's youngsters think to get married is a huge burden, and it kills love, sucks many aspects of life. A lot of women said they would never get married if they can choose again...But, still there is above question you need to face and solve in the real life?
Treat them as the other members of the community. Family members are people that has connections with you in your past lives, basically you own debts among each other so you meet again and become family members in this life. This is one of the program of Tao that following the Karma Law. Such debts could be emotional, material or life levels. Once people enter into the community, we expect them to expand their love from small family members to bigger family members, and do not keep special relationships with original families. Where there is speciality, there is difference between treatment and the private ownership could easily recover based on such relationships. Family is the basis of private ownership. So the basic values is individuals are the cell of a new society, not families. So each individual has their full freedom in a community, no need of the old relationships from their original families to maintain the happiness, love, or freedom of them for heading to a new life. We fully understand that it takes some time for people to adjust and get adapted, especially for couples, parents and children, but this is the direction that cannot be changed. Otherwise a new life mode can never be created and established.
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